I met this guy in May. Since then we've been messaging and texting incessantly everyday. In the beginning we saw each other every other week. We're both financially strapped in a big way and live an hour apart which has led to virtually no contact recently. He also works 24-7. We haven't had sex, because I'm unwilling unless there is commitment and he knows that's why. We've had the 'talk' and he is not ready to take things to the next level. I can't figure out why he's even still making the effort to communicate so often when he obviously doesn't want a relationship and furthermore he's not even getting sex out of it. What's his deal?