My girlfriend just broke up with me. I am lost and hurt tremendously, because we have an amazing connection and so comfortable with each other. I am a veteran. After 12 years in the marines I decided to leave in order to pursue my education. She is a pharmacist. She says that we are in different stages of our lives, and that she must feel like I can at least provide, should we have children. I have 2 years to go in school but she cannot wait she wants it now. I am 35 she is 32. She wont even answer my calls right now.