I have a man who is 7 years older than me. I have been involved with him for 2 years. He has been going through a divorce for 3 years. I love him and he too loves me. I see it but, but..when I want to do something or want him he says yes, but, it never works out. Just to let you know a little more about us, he is a middle class worker in the children mental health field. He has 3 children, 1 with special need. His oldest is 19 and the youngest is 9. And about me, I am a full time mental social worker single mom with 5 special needs children 15-6. But I find time for him. What should I do?