Can a man and woman be best friends without having any sexual feelings or desires towards one another? My boyfriend, a 46 year old man, has a best friend who's a woman. They've been best friends for over 2 years now and are both recovering alcoholics. This bothers me at times because he is so emotionally close to her and refuses to give up any overnight visits or trips with her. We are always at odds over their relationship. Am I being a stick in the mud? Am I being jealous and mistrusting? I feel he puts me 2nd to her at times.
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