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Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR REAL OR REBOUND:
  A:  Don't answer that phone girl! Be glad you got away ...        31%
  B:  Agree to date him casually but be somewhat aloof ( ...        23%
  C:  If you love something set it free, if it comes bac ...        25%
  D:  Hold on loosely but don't let go. If you cling too ...        21%
Total Votes: 1309


Dear Anyone,

Almost a year ago I had a fling with one of my guy friends (let's call him John), he is an amazing guy, and I really liked him. But when another one of my friends (pseudonym: Ian) found out about us, he told me that had been in love with me for a long time, and asked me to break it off with John. I did, and he ended up being very hurt. Now, a year later, I am still with Ian, we will be moving in together soon, and I love him. But I have had all these pent up feelings for John. My feelings for him never really went away, even as I feel in love with Ian. I keep wondering if I made the right choice, especially now, with all the stress of moving in together. I can't get John out of my head, even with an amazing boyfriend. To complicate things even more, while John and I are still acquaintances, he has very conflicted emotions regarding me, and may or may not hate me. So what should I do?

Burque Blues

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Stay with Ian, stay away from John, as long as you don't see him, the feelings toward him will fade.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Stay with Ian, but maybe you shouldn't be moving in together if you have all these doubts, slow down.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Break up with Ian and confess your feelings to John in an ambush-like style, thus putting the ball in his court
Vote for Option D   
D:  Break up with Ian, stay away from John, the three of you are way too tangled up in each other to make anything work.

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