I have been with my children's father for 8 years. I have been in love with another man for 15+ years. About a year ago I left to be with the other man, leaving my children with their father. I have never been so happy in my life. In order for the other man and me to be together, he had things he needed to take care of which would cause us to be apart.
I did alright for awhile. I couldn't handle not being with my children. I went home to my kids about two months after the other man left. My kids' father is a great guy and loves me truly unconditionally. Lately I have been regreting my decision. I can't now or have I ever been able to forget the other man. My children are under the age of 6 and I don't want to mess them up. When do I put my feelings ahead of my kids?
Confused in Kansas