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  A:  Put your foot down and say no. Married people aren ...        32%
  B:  Just go with the flow. As long as she's not sneaki ...        20%
  C:  Your wife should respect your feelings. If she's w ...        26%
  D:  You sound insecure and jealous. Is your wife banne ...        23%
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Dear Anyone,

My fiance and I have been together for almost 8 years and he recently had a bachelor party. His friends took him to a strip club. I would have bet my life that he wouldn't have allowed a lap dance, but apparently one of his friends paid for one for him. I'm having a hard time getting over the fact that he had a stripper all over him. He told me that it was completely innocent and has begged for my forgiveness, but I can't get it out of my head. I've told him that the wedding is off and he's cried to me that he didn't think it would offend me the way it has. I love him to death, but I can't get over the fact that he did this to me. Am I overreacting? I don't know what to do.

Hurt and Confused in Long Island


Vote for Option A   
A:  He obviously didn't want to hurt you. Maybe it's time you forgive and forget.
Vote for Option B   
B:  This is the kind of thing that indicates a person's character. It's best that you leave him.
Vote for Option C   
C:  The best way to resolve this is to do the same thing to him. Then you'll be even.
Vote for Option D   
D:  This is what everybody does at their Bachelor's Parties. You're right, you're totally overreacting.

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