My fiance and I have been together for almost 8 years and he recently had a bachelor party. His friends took him to a strip club. I would have bet my life that he wouldn't have allowed a lap dance, but apparently one of his friends paid for one for him. I'm having a hard time getting over the fact that he had a stripper all over him. He told me that it was completely innocent and has begged for my forgiveness, but I can't get it out of my head. I've told him that the wedding is off and he's cried to me that he didn't think it would offend me the way it has. I love him to death, but I can't get over the fact that he did this to me. Am I overreacting? I don't know what to do.
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