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Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR LONELY AND CONFUSED AND LOST:
  A:  Don't tell him. Boot camp, drill sergeants and bad ...        42%
  B:  Tell him. Nothing helps a man get through the tria ...        19%
  C:  Suss him out. Write him a few loving letters, and ...        19%
  D:  Hmmm... I think you're confusing love with sex. Gi ...        20%
Total Votes: 1851


Dear Anyone,

I am almost 32 and I am seeing a man who is 47. We were friends before this relationship started for around 2 years. He is the type of person who is quiet about his goings on in life. I was raised to let my loved ones know that I love them. He on the other hand was not brought up in that type of home...they don't discuss feelings. My issue is that I have told him I love him and I think he loves me, but won't tell me with words. He helps me out around my house all the time and shows me he loves me by the way he touches my hair or holds my hand. But I really would like to hear the words. He says that I should know that he cares about me because if he didn't, he wouldn't be around.

Needing to hear those 3 little words

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Tell him you love him even if he doesn't say it back. He'll show you he loves you in other ways.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Don't share the way you feel unless he reciprocates.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Insist on him sharing feelings, even if it's for you to get lost.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Openness about one's feelings is a big issue. You may want to reconsider dating him.

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