I've been attracted to a coworker for a while now, and recently we started hanging out. I thought she had no interest in me at first, but one night at a party she kissed me. Since then we've been friends, with the occasional romantic "incident" which confuses me even more. The problem is that she has a boyfriend that she has been seeing for about four months now, but she only sees him twice a month. I don't think she's happy with him, but she keeps hanging on (possibly because she feels guilty for seeing me). This girl is amazing to me, and she's told me she feels the same way, but she hasn't talked to her boyfriend about this, and I don't know if I can put up with waiting for her much longer.
impatient and confused in TX