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OUR ADVICE FOR HOPELESSLY GUILTY:
  A:  Try to forget about it. It's not a big deal, and w ...        34%
  B:  Talk to the friend and politely tell him he needs ...        22%
  C:  Make it up to your husband by paying him extra att ...        24%
  D:  There's no choice but to let things continue to be ...        21%
Total Votes: 1597


Dear Anyone,

I've been attracted to a coworker for a while now, and recently we started hanging out. I thought she had no interest in me at first, but one night at a party she kissed me. Since then we've been friends, with the occasional romantic "incident" which confuses me even more. The problem is that she has a boyfriend that she has been seeing for about four months now, but she only sees him twice a month. I don't think she's happy with him, but she keeps hanging on (possibly because she feels guilty for seeing me). This girl is amazing to me, and she's told me she feels the same way, but she hasn't talked to her boyfriend about this, and I don't know if I can put up with waiting for her much longer.

impatient and confused in TX

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Move on. She's just playing head games.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Be a friend first. She needs your support.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Give her an ultimatum. You or him, or you walk.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Wait it out and see if she really cares. If she really wants to be with him she'd see him more often anyways. She'll come around.

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