Dear Anyone Love Advice  
Love Advice


  A:  Talk to the guy about what happened in the past. Y ...        30%
  B:  There's nothing wrong with this, as long as you're ...        21%
  C:  Drop the friendship, not to mention the fantasies. ...        29%
  D:  Leave your husband. The ex is obviously your soul ...        20%
Total Votes: 1164

Dear Anyone,

I met this guy in May. Since then we've been messaging and texting incessantly everyday. In the beginning we saw each other every other week. We're both financially strapped in a big way and live an hour apart which has led to virtually no contact recently. He also works 24-7. We haven't had sex, because I'm unwilling unless there is commitment and he knows that's why. We've had the 'talk' and he is not ready to take things to the next level. I can't figure out why he's even still making the effort to communicate so often when he obviously doesn't want a relationship and furthermore he's not even getting sex out of it. What's his deal?

completely baffled


Vote for Option A   
A:  He likes you but work, finances and distance are too much of a factor for anything more to work right now.
Vote for Option B   
B:  He likes you but hasn't made up his mind as to whether it could ever be anything more because of factors other than work, finances, distance.
Vote for Option C   
C:  He sorta likes you but likes the attention even more. He doesn't see it going anywhere but will keep the communication string going.
Vote for Option D   
D:  He doesn't like you at all and is just stringing you along because he can. If you stop responding he'll probably just forget it.

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