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OUR ADVICE FOR WANTING, WISHING, WAITING IN KENTUCKY:
  A:  Just leave things the way they are. If you "flippe ...        32%
  B:  Tell him you are sorry and that you completely ove ...        27%
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Dear Anyone,

I volunteer regularly with a guy named "Damien" who I'm very attracted to. I see him probably twice a week. I'd like to ask him out, but I know through the grapevine that Damien has a girlfriend. The thing is, he NEVER mentions her in any conversation, and if anyone ever asks about her, he seems to offer some vague answer and kills the line of questioning. We hold a lot of social events for our charity, and she has never shown up. Damien also has a small work station at the charity offices, and there are absolutely no pictures of the girlfriend anywhere. Are these signs that things are rotten in the state of Denmark, and that I can move in and ask him out?

Waiting on the Sidelines in Vancouver

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  
Vote for Option B   
B:  Go for it. Damien is definitely showing signs that he's on the outs with his woman. Happy boyfriends are loud and proud.
Vote for Option C   
C:  He's showing signs that the relationship is dying, but has he shown signs he's into you? Unless you get the latter, too, don't bother.
Vote for Option D   
D:  It's always fair game to move in on someone before they're married. All he can say is "no."

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