Dear Anyone Love Advice  
 
 
Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR UTTERLY CONFUSED AND SHOULD'VE MADE UP HER MIND YEARS AGO:
  A:  Stay and continue to work through it. There's too ...        29%
  B:  Stay, but lay down some ground rules. If he can't ...        24%
  C:  Leave, and tell him you'll take him back when he's ...        25%
  D:  Leave, and kick his behind to the curb! He's damag ...        22%
Total Votes: 1203


Dear Anyone,

I have been married for 14 years and I have 3 kids. I married my husband even though I knew I didn't love him like I should. I was too scared to back out when I knew I should. I have been unfulfilled and lonely for a long time and have been very vocal about this the last 2 years. I came so close to leaving that my husband finally started to take me seriously. We are in therapy. The problem is, I still feel nothing - even though he is trying so hard - almost too hard. Another problem is that I am in love with a very good friend. I can't seem to stop myself from thinking about him. How can I stop? What should I do?

wanting happiness

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Your feelings for your friend will go away with time - stay focused on your marriage.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Feelings for your husband will develop - keep working at it.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Feelings may never develop - accept this or move on.

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