OUR ADVICE FOR CONFLICTED BETWEEN LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP IN LA:

	A:	Continue the relationship as is. He's old enough t ...		39%
	B:	Encourage him to date someone else who is willing ...		28%
	C:	Tell him he's being a fool. Explain to him that he ...		33%
Total Votes: 1558

Dear Anyone,

I met this guy at my university almost 2 years ago. It was attraction at first sight for me. It started as a crush but developed into really strong feelings. We started dating casually after knowing each other for a few months because he wasn't ready for commitment. Mind you, I'm guessing that he didn't want to get serious because of my history as a player. After 6 months of dating, I ended things because I got tired. Now, I'm regretting my decision because I've realised how much I love him and I regret proving him right that I'm a player who's not into commitment. We're pretty good friends now and the more I get to know him, the harder I fall. The problem is, I don't think he knows I'm still into him and I don't think he'll ever trust me again in that way.

crying in silence

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Mistake done. Get over him and move on with life.
	B:	Don't give up on love. After all, there's no harm trying again.
	C:	Be friends for now. If you still love him after some time and feel ready for commitment, then go for it.
	D:	You've blown him off before so why should he trust you again? Don't risk what you've got now. Stay friends and only friends.

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