Dear Anyone Love Advice  
Love Advice


  A:  Embrace the new relationship no matter the differe ...        32%
  B:  Tell this person that you are much too old for her ...        20%
  C:  Move on, but age isn't the issue. It sounds like y ...        29%
  D:  Make passionate love as you've discussed and just ...        20%
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Dear Anyone,

I met this guy who is 37. I am 45, and I fell madly in love with him. I used to live in California, where I met this guy. I recently moved back to my home town in Arizona, and he stayed in California. He has only called me once since I moved back to Arizona. He told me that what we had was very beautiful and that he thinks a lot about me, but I have called him several times and he doesn't call back. I am madly in love with him and want him back! At least I want for him to call me to hear his voice. What advice do you have for me?

Vio in Arizona


Vote for Option A   
A:  Forget about him. If he's only called you once, he's doesn't love you. To him, you're "out of sight, out of mind."
Vote for Option B   
B:  Maybe he's just busy, so try the Three Calls Rule. If you leave three messages and he doesn't call you back, he's toast.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Some people aren't phone people. Try email or letters, and see if he's more responsive.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Up the ante. Invite him to visit you in Arizona, and if he's not interested... well, you know what that means.

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