OUR ADVICE FOR SECRETLY ADMIRING IN NEW ENGLAND:

	A:			29%
	B:	If the email is polite, and just asks her out for ...		21%
	C:			26%
	D:	Try the friend of a friend of a friend thing. What ...		24%
Total Votes: 1822

Dear Anyone,

I'm a 35 year-old successful woman. I have been dating a guy for two years. When we first met, he said all five of his lady friendships were platonic. 8 months later, I find out he has previously slept with all of them. When I confronted him, he said that he didn't tell me because he knew I wouldn't continue to date him. Then I found out he was surfing internet porn sites and escort services. I again confronted him and he said that he only surfs the escort sites for entertainment, and the porn has been a habit he has been trying to break. We go to counseling and that was a major bust. Today, I overheard my boyfriend's daughter talking to a friend about a trip she had taken last year when her dad met up with a former girlfriend. I had begged to go on the same trip, but he said that I couldn't because he needed to spend time with his daughter. I confronted him and he said that it was true. I know this guy is a loser, but recently I was let go from my job and he is currently supporting us. If I kick him to the curb, I could have to file bankruptcy. I love him to death, but I don't trust him. Why can't I let go?

Can't Believe It Happened AGAIN

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Forgive him this time, but tell him he's on the last of his nine lives.
	B:	Forget the couple's counseling. You need to go to counselling on your own. It sounds like you have some denial and self-esteem issues.
	C:	Leave him. The money isn't worth the constant lying, cheating and humiliation. Don't you know "successful" women don't get trampled on?
	D:	Have an affair yourself. Leveling the playing field will make you feel a whole lot better.

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