OUR ADVICE FOR SECRETLY ADMIRING IN NEW ENGLAND:

	A:			28%
	B:	If the email is polite, and just asks her out for ...		22%
	C:			27%
	D:	Try the friend of a friend of a friend thing. What ...		23%
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Dear Anyone,

"Felicia" and I have been dating for about 3 years now and I just transferred to USC this past year. I only see her on the weekends now and that makes her really insecure because we don't get to see each other every day. She thinks I'm going to end up cheating on her because I can't be there to assure her that I'm not going to. She's 8 years older than me and has a 10 year-old son, too. We get along really well, but her insecurity is getting really psychotic and unbearable.

Broken Trojan

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Help her work through her insecurities. Maybe a good, honest heart-to-heart will calm her fears.
	B:	If she needs reassurance, just give it to her. What does it cost you besides a little time and a couple bucks in long distance?
	C:	Break it off. One of the beautiful things about older women is their sophistication and maturity. If that's not there, what's the appeal?

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