I have been with my boyfriend now for around 2 years. We have a child together, on top of my two from a previous marriage. And we have lived together for about a year now.
When we were dating before we moved in together, we spent all of our free time together, and made love at least everyday, if not a few times a day. Now that we've been living together, he's not interested, or ever in the mood. I've tried everything to seduce him, and nothing works.
He says that he's very attracted to me still, and that he's just depressed and not adjusted to 3 kids. What do I do? We've been living together for almost a year, and we may have sex once a month, but he doesn't seem to enjoy it. I have found that he looks at porn after I'm in bed at night, and this concerns me. Am I right to be so concerned, or should, I just let go of the sex in our relationship, and hope that it returns one day? I've talked to him about it, but he says that he doesn't want to talk about it, and as soon as I mention it, or try to initiate it, he says that I'm annoying him.
Sexually Frustrated in VA