I am 21 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I was 16 and he was 19 when we got together. We have a 17 month old daughter and I am 6 months pregnant with our second child. He is kissing on a 16 year-old girl that he works with. He tells me that he loves me and would like to work things out with me later, but after he "does what he wants when he wants," as he puts it. I am so torn up about all of this because I love him, but I don't know how much more of this I can take before I break down. I recently found out that they tell each other they love one another. He says he doesn't want to be with me, but doesn't want me to leave. He wants me to be OK with all of this because if say anything, he gets mad and yells at me. I don't think I did anything to deserve this. I have always been there for him. We live together, and this is killing me. My nerves are so bad I can't eat or sleep. When I try to eat because I'm pregnant, I can't because I get so sick. He says a little part of him feels like this is just a phase and it won't last. I am so confused. Help.
Hopelessly in Love and Hopeful My Family Doesn't Tear Apart