Dear Anyone - family Advice  


  A:  Raise a massive stink. Threaten to boycott the wed ...        30%
  B:  Raise a big stink. At least convince your dad to g ...        26%
  C:  Raise a little stink. Talk to you dad to see what ...        22%
  D:          22%
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Dear Anyone,

I have been with my daughter's dad for 8 years. I had cheated on him with my first love and then a couple months later I found out I was pregnant. I wasn't sure who her father was so I kept the secret of what I had done all together.

Here we are almost 4 years after my daughter was born and I finally told everyone that I had cheated and I didn't know for sure who my daugther's father was. Now the other man is wanting to get the DNA test done, but the father she has always known doesn't want the test to be done. I on the other hand do want the test done.

Messing Up Life In Kansas


Vote for Option A   
A:  Tell the guy that has always been there to deal with it. It is better to know now then later.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Tell them both that it doesn't matter and when she gets older if she wants to know than she can make the decision.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Tell the other guy that she has had a daddy for the last 4 years and she is doing just fine.

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