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OUR ADVICE FOR TWISTED SISTER IN TORONTO:
  A:          33%
  B:  Your sister sounds immature, but hanging up the ph ...        21%
  C:          23%
  D:  Call mom and dad. Let them be the judge, and abide ...        24%
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Dear Anyone,

I have been in a relationship for 9 months. We are very much in love, we are engaged and living together. I moved a few hours away from my hometown and my family to be with her. I came here, got a job and a making pretty good money. Although the job is only a temporary job it came with the possibility of permanent in mind. They seem to like me and I love the job... however I have a problem. My fiance will not get a job. Rather... she says she can't find one. I've helped her put in a million applications and shes got call backs, but by the time she finally called them back the position had already been filled. That or she just never called back. Recently she told me that she got two call backs and I have been after here for over a week to call them back. She tells me that while I'm at work she does call but someone always tells her that the manager is out or to call back at a certain time. Then when she calls back the manager had a meeting or something. It's frustrating me because I'm working on saving for our future and she's not. I know she loves me, she just doesn't want a job.... so what should I do?

Jobless Fiance

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Talk to her again. Really try to get her to understand how you are feeling. Communication is key to any relationship.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Ditch her! She doesn't want a job because she knows that she can get away with just slacking off.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Give her an ultimatum. Tell her to get a job or your outta there!
Vote for Option D   
D:  Leave the situation be. She will eventually come across a job that she wants to work at. Until then just gently help her along.

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