Dear Anyone - family Advice  
 
 

 

HOW IT WORKS:

1. Read the letter below asking for advice about family.
2. Click on a house to give your advice.
3. View the voting results in this box. Repeat.

Dear Anyone,

I have always had problems with my father. I still remember myself being a kid and having problems with him. I think it was because he understood that I was becoming someone unlike him. My relationship with him became very unpleasant and I had to move out from my parents' house because of him. I don't know how I can find a way of talking to him again. All I do is wrong and not good enough for him. I do want to visit that house because I have 2 baby sisters who I love and miss a lot, and there's also my mother who I love the most. BUT there's him who's always there as well, and who makes me feel bad and guilty about everything. Like today, I found out he was mad at me because I did not say hi to him first a few days ago. This situation is really making me feel uncomfy coming home, and ignoring him is not very workable any more, so please help!

Mel

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  So you have a grumpy dad. Who doesn't? Just grin and bear it so you can enjoy the rest of your family.
Vote for Option B   
B:  You deserve respect from your father, and if you're not getting it, then you should think about cutting him from your life.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Tell your dad that you would like to have a better relationship with him, and ask him how you two can do that. That'll soften him.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Talk to your mom and see what she says. Maybe she can play peacemaker.

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