Dear Anyone - family Advice  
 
 

 

HOW IT WORKS:

1. Read the letter below asking for advice about family.
2. Click on a house to give your advice.
3. View the voting results in this box. Repeat.

Dear Anyone,

Help - my 19 year-old daughter just found out she's pregnant by her 27 year-old boyfriend of about 7 months. The problem is my future son-in-law's current career. It borders on illegal--sales of illegal non-prescription materials, if you get my drift. I have told her how unhappy I am that she is so involved with someone who is involved in criminal activity, although she insists he is clean himself. I have never been able to have a real conversation with this guy due to the fact that he knows I do not approve of his career choice and hope he would just go away, but now he is to be the father of my grandchild. How do I talk to this guy? What should I say? Should I ask about his future intentions re: work and encourage him to become legit? My daughter say he wants to after he has reached his monetary goal. He could be a good guy if he went straight. He has no parents of his own. He doesn't communicate with me. What to do or say??

BC Granny

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Initiate a heart to heart talk and encourage a new career. Maybe the baby will make him turn over a new leaf.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Insist your daughter leave him and live with you. You need to put your foot down on this one.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Don't say anything. The only person he'll listen to is your daughter, so work on her, and maybe she'll convince him to get a real job.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Send a tip to the police and have him busted. This guy needs to be in jail and out of your daughter and future grandchild's lives.

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