I was married in 1999 to a beautiful Mexican girl 17 years my junior. Two and a half years into our marriage, we had a beautiful baby girl who is now 3. Seven weeks after our child was born, my wife filed an order of protection against me (it was thrown out of court). My wife never let on that there was a problem in our marriage. On a Tuesday she told me she and our newborn loved me, and the next day she filed the order. All of a sudden she said that I drank too much, so I immediately quit and have been sober for the three years since she left. We have been divorced since 2003 and I still love her so much it hurts. She would never go to counseling or even try to fix our marriage. I can't seem to move on. I pray constantly for her to have a change of heart. How do I win her back? Should I try? By the way, she did not marry me for citizenship. That I am POSITIVE of. Our child deserves at least a chance at a family.
Heart Ripped Out