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Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR DOUBLE TROUBLE WITH AN OLDER GIRL:
  A:  She's way off your league man. 30? Too old!        31%
  B:  Age is just a number. Love is in the air! Go for it!        25%
  C:  Stealing is a sin, and that includes girlfriends t ...        23%
  D:  There's no ring on her finger, and the boyfriend i ...        21%
Total Votes: 1459


Dear Anyone,

I am in love with one of my best friends. I have known her for 7 years and about 5 years ago I told her I was interested in her. She told me she did not feel the same. She said I was like a brother to her--I know, the kiss of death. Yet I had many people tell me they thought she liked me as well. I felt 99% sure she did like me. I thought it might be my age (I am 11 years older than her). But she recently dated someone older than me. We remain best friends to this day but now I am developing feelings for her again and don't know what to do. Every time I am with her the feeling gets stronger. I don't want to lose her friendship but at the same time don't know if I could hide these feelings.

only a best friend??

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Don't ruin a good thing. Continue being friends and let things happen naturally.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Tell her but do it in a way that won't make her uncomfortable.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Pull the high school trick: have someone else test the waters for you to see if she like you that way too.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Tell her how you feel. If she doesn't reciprocate then pull back for a while to sort out your feelings.

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