OUR ADVICE FOR ~CUPID'S EX~:

	A:	Get "Thomas's" attention and make him listen.		29%
	B:	Become friends with Thomas. If it was meant to be, ...		24%
	C:	Become Thomas's friend and try to talk to his best ...		25%
	D:	Constantly remind him some how that you're still i ...		22%
Total Votes: 1427

Dear Anyone,

I have been friends with "Andy" for 20 years. His wife cheated on him back in April and I have since convinced her to tell him she did, but now she is in chat rooms nightly while he works 3rd shift. She has met about 5 men she talks to regularly, and they call her at night when Andy is working. She is in New Hampshire, and she went a week ago to meet a guy in Massachusetts and cheated on Andy again. She plans to see this guy again soon. She also claims she is going to Texas to see another man and I just don't think this is right. I feel I have to tell Andy. I'm not sure I should get involved, but I feel she has already indirectly involved me by bragging to me daily about it and asking me if she can tell her husband she is coming to see me when she is going to see this guy in Massachusetts.

I have only been friends with her since she married Andy, but we have not always been the best of friends, and it would be no big loss if I were to lose her friendship over telling him. I am just afraid of losing his friendship. I need some help and direction on this one.

Confused in Billerica

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:
	B:	Tell the wife to bugger off, but otherwise, stay out of this one. You don't want to be implicated in any of her shenanigans.
	C:	Write Andy an anonymous note spilling the beans. He needs to know the message, not the messenger.
	D:	Pretend nothing's wrong. For Andy, ignorance is bliss.

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