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OUR ADVICE FOR CONFUSED:
  A:  Stay with him and see what happens        26%
  B:  Leave him alone you don't want to end up hurt        23%
  C:  Move on        23%
  D:  Talk to him and see if he is going to be serious a ...        28%
Total Votes: 1593


Dear Anyone,

I have been in a relationship for 7 1/2 years with this guy. We live together but there is this guy that I used to work with and we have been sexual with each other on and off for the past 2 1/2 years. He has a girlfriend. We would see each other everyday at work and we might be sexual with each other maybe once a month, then we might go to twice or three times a month. Then we might not see each other sexually for about two months. He doesn't work with me anymore but we still see each other some. We don't talk a lot. I have a lot of feelings toward him and I think he might have them towards me too but I think that we are both scared to say anything to each other because we don't want to lose what we already have. Another problem is race. He is black and I am white. This also plays a big part in a relationship or what ever it is called. I want to tell him how I feel but I don't want to lose what we have now.

CONFUSED

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Tell him how you feel and see what he says. It's worth the risk.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Don't tell him and hint around about your feelings and see how he reacts.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Don't risk what you have now. Keep things the way they are.
Vote for Option D   
D:  First things first. You shouldn't be cheating on your current boyfriend.

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