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OUR ADVICE FOR SILENTLY SHATTERED:
  A:  Keep on fighting and see how it plays out.        39%
  B:  Give up and move on.        30%
  C:  Talk things over and see what he says.        31%
Total Votes: 1241


Dear Anyone,

Can a man and woman be best friends without having any sexual feelings or desires towards one another? My boyfriend, a 46 year old man, has a best friend who's a woman. They've been best friends for over 2 years now and are both recovering alcoholics. This bothers me at times because he is so emotionally close to her and refuses to give up any overnight visits or trips with her. We are always at odds over their relationship. Am I being a stick in the mud? Am I being jealous and mistrusting? I feel he puts me 2nd to her at times.

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WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Men & women can be pals without sex! Get over it or you may lose him.
Vote for Option B   
B:  They find a bond in their disease & recovery...accept it.
Vote for Option C   
C:  NOOOO..there's always sexual thoughts between men & women who say they are just friends. He better start respecting your feelings and put you first.

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