Dear Anyone,
I am married but I have been in love for several years with a woman I dated a bit when we were younger. Problem is we both married and had kids and now later I find I still thing she is my soul mate. The big problem is she is my wife's former best friend. They no longer speak or see each other since we moved 20 miles away 18 years ago. I've thought about her often and 3 years ago went to her workplace on her birthday with a card. She was so excited and happy that we have since been doing lunch a couple times a month. I have no idea if she knows I have feeling other than friendship. Should I tell her? I would leave my wife for her but am not sure if she is happy in her marriage. I am not happy in mine. My wife has said she no longer love me. Help. How do I find out if she has feelings for me?
Totally screwed up.