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OUR ADVICE FOR FEELING SEXUALLY HELPLESS:
  A:  Talk to her again. Even if nothing got solved any ...        32%
  B:  Just accept that ya'lls sex drive is different and ...        26%
  C:  Accept and understand that you have different sex ...        21%
  D:  Change your sexual routine. Give her a massage, ha ...        21%
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Dear Anyone,

I dated my boyfriend for 2 years and then moved in with him for 3 years. I have a son and he has 2 sons, only one speaks to him. It started out fine, but then he became very critical of my son and it got to the point where they didn't even speak. My boyfriend started drinking almost every night in our garage with his buddies until late at night and then come in drunk and obnoxious. Eventually I started sleeping on the floor of my son's room. A couple of times he pushed me around and the last time I moved out. He blamed all our problems on my son, who during this time was between 12 and 14. He said I didn't discipline him the right way. (My son is a very nice kid.) He's a kid, maybe he's not the neatest but he's good. During the last 5 months I was there I met a guy at work and started sneaking around seeing him, which I know was wrong. So after I left, my boyfriend begged me to keep seeing him and wait a few more years until our kids went off to college and we could start over again. For now we would just see each other but live apart. The guy I started seeing from work wants to have a relationship, wants to live together now, asked me to marry him and is really nice to me and my son. It's been a year since I started hanging around with him. I really like him, he's a really good friend, but I am not crazy in love with him, I still love the other guy. Should I hang on and hope it works out with the 1st guy and trust that he means what he says and has learned from his mistakes or hope that I fall in love with the second guy and have stability and security?

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WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  You've been with your boyfriend for a while. If you love him, try to make it work.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Your boyfriend sounds like a looser. Take a chance on the new guy.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Put your love life on hold for a while. Instead focus on your son. He needs his mother and some stability.

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