OUR ADVICE FOR I NEED HELP:

	A:	Tell him if he really loves you that he has to mak ...		42%
	B:	Leave it to him to figure out.		27%
	C:	Tell his girlfriend that he loves you and no longe ...		31%
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Dear Anyone,

I have been with my husband for a total of 4 years. We have the kind of relationship everyone envies--or so I thought. About 2 months ago I noticed our cell phone bill was a little high so I checked the record and found a number coming up frequently on my husband's call log. Curious, I asked him who it was, (his old friend Stephanie he dated 10 years ago and ran into at work). I got upset about how much they talked and he assured me nothing was going on. Later I found that he had gone over to her house to fix her bathroom and told me it was his friend Joe. We have gotten in several arguments and he assures me that he only loves me and will stop talking to her, but I keep finding proof they are still talking. I feel betrayed and very naive. What do I do now?

Untrusting

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Seek counseling and work it out.
	B:	Give him the boot. He needs to learn to be honest with you.
	C:	Wait it out. Give him a chance to prove that you're worried over nothing.

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