Dear Anyone,
I'm unsure of what is next. I just ended a shaky relationship with my ex. We were not a couple, but we did couple like things. He lives in another state but I visited every two to three months. A few months ago, I found out that he has a girlfriend and has been hiding her from me. I broke everything off completely, I ignore all of his calls and emails and now he doesn't call anymore. Now, I really miss him and sometimes I can't help but wonder if the distance was a problem or was it me for allowing our so-so relationship to go on for a few years. I sometimes have the urge to call or email him but I don't want to be his friend. I want to be his girlfriend. What should I do talking doesn't help because I end up doing all the talking. He is scheduled to come visit next month, I think he will try to stop by, should I let him. Help!!
Nowwhat in Minnesota