OUR ADVICE FOR DATING TO LONG AND WANTING MORE:

	A:	There's nothing wrong with asking him to marry you ...		30%
	B:	Ask him to ask you to marry him.		20%
	C:	Wait for him to ask you. It may be traditional but ...		22%
	D:	In principle there's nothing wrong with a woman pr ...		28%
Total Votes: 1822

Dear Anyone,

I'm 40 years old and met a 46 year old man online who lives far away from me. He has been married for 20 years and unhappy with marriage for past 2 years. We have fallen in love online and talk of meeting and planning a life together. I asked him to seriously give his marriage a try before he decides to leave, but it seems he and his wife discuss things and nothing changes. I get upset because I feel he should have left by now, its been about 6 months. How long should I wait? Is my head in the clouds?

Waiting in Ontario

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	End the cyber love. He is obviously staying in the marriage.
	B:	Wait it out. Maybe you haven't given him enough time. After all, ending a marriage is no small task.
	C:	Did you ever consider that you may be nothing more than a fantasy to him? Your "romance" will never leave the cyber-world.

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