OUR ADVICE FOR FRUSTRATED AND SAD, LONDON:

	A:	Have more willpower and stop contact. If he comes ...		28%
	B:	Try to find someone else with fewer problems!		26%
	C:	Try to meet up more to get physically closer.		22%
	D:	Keep on as you are going slowly and he will trust ...		24%
Total Votes: 1508

Dear Anyone,

Recently in one of my trips to California I met a wonderful guy. The problem is I live in Arizona, and of course, he lives in California. But ever since we met he called me at least 3 or 4 times a week. He seemed to be really into me, and I started to really like him. Last weekend I went to California for a couple of days and we went out to a club. He was so sweet to me and he kept kissing me and he told me he really liked me. But he didn't ask me if I wanted to be his girlfriend! I kept throwing hints at him but he didn't get it... I told him I felt unconfortable kissing my friend and he just smiled and kissed me more. That night he seemed sad and he mentioned he wanted to see me again. I told him we could hang out the next day since I wasn't leaving till late that evening. Well the next day came (yesterday) and he didn't even call me. I sent him two messages and he didn't reply. So now I'm really confused. Why was he so sweet and then all of a sudden he doesn't even call me? I just don't understand. I told him that I could make an effort to visit him every month and he seemed happy about that but now I feel like he doesn't want a long distance relationship...

Xtra Confused

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Wait for him to call you. Be his friend until he makes up his mind on whether he wants a serious relationship.
	B:	Forget about him... Long distance relationships never work.
	C:	Be blunt. Ask him to clarify your relationship status next time he calls.
	D:	Don't stress over his uncertainty. If he likes you he'll call; if he doesn't call then move on.

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