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OUR ADVICE FOR NEEDING TO HEAR THOSE 3 LITTLE WORDS:
  A:  Tell him you love him even if he doesn't say it ba ...        29%
  B:  Don't share the way you feel unless he reciprocates.        25%
  C:  Insist on him sharing feelings, even if it's for y ...        22%
  D:  Openness about one's feelings is a big issue. You ...        24%
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Dear Anyone,

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months. We have been living together the whole time and he has been helping me out so much. I really love him a lot. But there is a problem: we only have one vehicle right now because I cannot afford to fix the one I have or to buy another one.

Well anyway, anytime I want to go out and hang out with my friends I always ask him if I can go because it is his car and if I do ask that always means I have the gas money to put back in the car. He always tells me no. I feel so miserable because I can't go out and just have fun on my own. It is like I can't get away. All we ever do is argue about this situation. I don't like being controlled, but I can understand were he's coming from because, after all, it is his car. I just don't know what to do. I'm almost to the point of moving out because I can't stand being cooped up in this house any longer. All I ever do is go to work and come home and do what he wants to do. I can never just be by myself unless I am at work. Will someone please help me.

Bored and Miserable

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  It sounds like the car situation isn't your only problem here. Pack your things and go.
Vote for Option B   
B:  All in all you've got a pretty good situation to have someone to help you out. Just live with it.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Start saving money for a car and one day you'll get some independence back.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Talk the situation over with your boyfriend. Maybe you can arrange it so that you're allowed to use his car one night a week or something.

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