OUR ADVICE FOR IN LOVE AND HURTEN:

	A:	Pursue, pursue, pursue. But make sure you set some ...		30%
	B:	Swallow your pride and take her back on her terms.		23%
	C:	Confront her mother yourself.		25%
	D:	You can't make her come back. Sad as it may be, yo ...		22%
Total Votes: 1551

Dear Anyone,

My husband has been writing e-mails to other women. When I found out about it I was hurt. He said that there was nothing wrong with what he was doing because they would never meet each other. I told him I felt like he was cheating on me but he got extremely defensive and said that I need to see a Doctor because I was over-reacting. I said that if he found the need to hide things from me like that then his conscience should tell him he was doing something wrong. Was I over-reacting? Is it ok for a spouse to write other women or men?

Hurt in Texas

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Chatting up other women is not ok. You are not over-reacting and your husband should stop what he is doing.
	B:	Your husband should be allowed to have friends whether women or men--as long as they are only friends.
	C:	This may be an indicator that something is missing in your marriage. You should explore what this may be so that it doesn't become a serious problem.
	D:	Find your own boy toys and see how he feels.

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