OUR ADVICE FOR TORN:

	A:	Tell him how you feel about him and see what happe ...		31%
	B:	Be realistic. He lives far away from you. Stay wit ...		23%
	C:	Ride out your current relationship. If it ends, th ...		22%
	D:	Next time you see this guy you're pining after, ma ...		24%
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Dear Anyone,

I have been dating a man for 7 months. On occasion he says hurtful things. Recently, we were at a fund raising dinner, sitting at a table with a couple we had never met before. At one point he said, "She's a real ball buster". I was angry, hurt and confused. I tried to talk to him about how hurtful his remark was, but his response was to blow me off, saying that I was too sensitive. I need to resolve this issue because I know a similar situation WILL happen in the future and need to know how to handle it. I would also like to have a discussion with him and try to make him understand his remarks aren't funny ... they're hurtful.

Cold and confused in Buffalo

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Drop him because he's insensitive and will never change.
	B:	See a therapist who may have an answer on how to proceed.
	C:	Talk to him again and let him know if it happens again, it'll be adios.
	D:	Forget it and move on. If it happens again, remind him how hurtful he is.

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