Dear Anyone,
Do you think this guy has feelings for me? He calls it 'friendship' but I'm in love with him. He has a girlfriend. I suspect he does have strong feelings for me but I can't get him to admit it. I just need to know what you think.
1. He calls and texts me everyday without fail, at least twice. Sometimes he calls just to see if I'm fine and to say Hi.
2. If I go on a day without texting him he would get upset and ask me why can't I spare a few minutes texting him.
3. If he has a problem he tells me about it, not for me to solve but just as someone to talk to.
4. He tells me everything.
5. He makes marriage jokes with me (as in we get married together but very impliedly). He makes do as if he's kidding but judging by the way he says it and the frequency of it, I get the feeling that he's serious.
6. He wants to know what I'm feeling all the time. As in bare my soul to him, tell him all my secrets, confide in him, express myself. I don't do that and it frustrates him.
7. He likes to ask me about my day everyday, and he will listen patiently. He remembers everything I say or do.
8. He gave me expensive perfume that he intended to give to his gf
9. We argue, but at the end of the day we resolve our issues and somehow I feel like we're getting closer.
10. If I talk to him about other guys he changes the topic or sometimes warn me about them. Sometimes he supports me, so this is where I'm confused.
11. If I tell him I'm going somewhere the first thing he will ask is "Who are you with?" or "With whom did you go?" and there's this one time he went "All of them are girls right?"
12. He calls and sms and sees me behind the gf's back. He tells me he's risking his relationship by doing this, but he wants to see me and contact me.
13. He tells me he really cares about me and I am someone to him.
14. His friends, girlfriend and brother all think there's something going on between us but he never admits it. My friends and family think so too, though I tell them he's just a friend.
15. I feel like we're in a relationship without the labels but I get really confused by the fact that he insisted we're only friends. I find it very hard to believe.
Help! Thanks.
Lovesick and Confused