Dear Anyone,
I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. I started feeling my boyfriend, "Tyler", pulling away last fall. I started to let things go because I didn't want to put our relationship in any more jeopardy. By letting things go I mean, not getting upset, even though he rarely wanted to hang out and stopped fulfilling his "boyfriend obligations," you could say.
He has been fully submerged in this video game that supposedly requires all his time and has pretty much stopped hanging out with friends and has stopped doing anything requiring physical activity. He used to be all about the sports and his body.
Recently I just feel like we've been continuing on in this relationship for the pure hell of it. He even says he's not happy and I am just not satisfied with the turn our relationship has taken, because it never used to be this way.
He tells me he wants things to work; however, he needs me, he says, to intiate the old way we used to be, so that he can also return to his old ways.
I don't know whether or not to believe his words because his actions are totally different. I have been beating my head against a wall attempting to win him back.
Confused about Lazy Boyfriend