Dear Anyone,
I think this guy at work really likes me. He flirts with me all the time at work and every time I talk about how cute a guy at a table looks (I'm a waitress) he says "You could do better than him!" Then he gives me suggestive winks. Sounds all good and dandy right? Well here's where the problem comes in.
I am still in love with a friend of mine. I know he probably doesn't feel the same and you can't just turn your feelings off over night. I have known my friend for four years now, been in love with him for about three.
I want to go out with different guys and have fun but a possible future with my friend is holding me back. I sometimes feel that if I go out with my co-worker that I feel I will be using him just for my own needs, comfort, and well...sex. I haven't gotten any for a couple of months. Pathetic, I know, but what can you do? I hate one night stands. Anyways...should I go out with the co-worker and move on or should I still wait for my friend and have a little chat with him?
Confused and lonely