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Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR STRUGGLING IN KENTUCKY:
  A:  Forget it, and move on. You had your chance with y ...        29%
  B:  Pursue your wishes and move. If your husband loves ...        23%
  C:  Tell your husband about your concerns. It will hel ...        23%
  D:  Call the ex. It's not too late to try for true love.        25%
Total Votes: 1554


Dear Anyone,

I think this guy at work really likes me. He flirts with me all the time at work and every time I talk about how cute a guy at a table looks (I'm a waitress) he says "You could do better than him!" Then he gives me suggestive winks. Sounds all good and dandy right? Well here's where the problem comes in.

I am still in love with a friend of mine. I know he probably doesn't feel the same and you can't just turn your feelings off over night. I have known my friend for four years now, been in love with him for about three.

I want to go out with different guys and have fun but a possible future with my friend is holding me back. I sometimes feel that if I go out with my co-worker that I feel I will be using him just for my own needs, comfort, and well...sex. I haven't gotten any for a couple of months. Pathetic, I know, but what can you do? I hate one night stands. Anyways...should I go out with the co-worker and move on or should I still wait for my friend and have a little chat with him?

Confused and lonely

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  When the co-worker asks you out, you should jump on the chance! He sounds like he's interested and your friend doesn't.
Vote for Option B   
B:  It sounds like you still are stuck on your friend. You shouldn't date until you get over him. You don't want to use guys.
Vote for Option C   
C:  You should share your feelings with your guy friend. If he rejects your feelings lean on good ol' co-worker to heal your hurts!
Vote for Option D   
D:  Maybe you should go out with the co-worker to just get in touch with the dating world again, you never know if a new love with blossom!

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