OUR ADVICE FOR HOW DO I GET HIM OFF MY MIND?:

	A:	Here's a suggestion: stop talking to him.		28%
	B:	If you really don't want to like him anymore, remi ...		25%
	C:	Tell him how you feel about him. If he doesn't lik ...		22%
	D:	Maybe your heart is trying to tell you something. ...		25%
Total Votes: 1774

Dear Anyone,

I love my boyfriend (we've been together for more than 1 year and 1/2) but I'm beginning to wonder if I've been blind to his wandering eye. Three weeks after we met I borrowed his favorite pillow for a work-related road trip and found a pair of women's panties in the pillowcase, but never mentioned it to him because we'd only known each other a few weeks and the panties could have been there for ages. A few days ago, I came back from walking the dog and heard him talking on the phone to someone whose voice was so loud I could hear it across the room, and although he was acting like he was talking to his father, this person sounded like a woman. Am I crazy? Should I ask him to explain these things?

Loco in Love

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Do a little detective work on the sly. Keep an eye on the phone records and the condoms.
	B:	Confront your boyfriend. He's given you plenty of reason to have a little what-the-heck-is-going-on conversation.
	C:	Ask a doctor about anti-anxiety medication. You're sounding paranoid.
	D:	Dump him so he can keep whoever's panties he wants in his pillowcase.

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