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OUR ADVICE FOR UNREQUITED LOVE:
  A:  You've given it your best shot. It's time to forge ...        32%
  B:  Don't give up so quickly. Say the words I LOVE YOU ...        21%
  C:  Stay friends with him and see what happens.        25%
  D:  Work your feminine charm and make eyes to him        21%
Total Votes: 1471

Dear Anyone,

About six months ago, I went on this trip, not expecting to find any "crushes" as I usually do when I go places. Turns out I did; and you know, I wasn't serious about it, to me it was just an innocent crush. After a while, we became really good friends. Almost like best friends. We got to talking a lot, and realized that we have a lot in common and would get into very deep conversations. I can talk to him about anything. And he feels like that with me too.

However, there is a slight problem. He has a girlfriend who he has been with a good two years. It is possible to like someone while still having a significant other, but he doesn't make his signals very clear. My friend says the way he looks at me makes her think he likes me. And my friend has said some things to him like "Oh, you should get with her" and says things to him about me (good things of course). The more she does this, the more he will think that I like him. He asks me every once in a while if I do. I told him once, but than afterwards I told him I liked someone else, which is a flat-out lie. Recently, I got a boyfriend, and really, right now we have just been going out a couple days and we haven't met each other yet (online relationship). I'm afraid by going out with him I will only be imagining that it's my crush. To make matters worse my crush has graduated and so I only really get to talk to him on msn (and see him when he comes to concerts) but the last concert he went to I didn't really get a good chance to talk to him alone; because he brought his girlfriend with him. I am crazy about him, and feel a deep connection with him and getting over him is just not an option. What should I do?

Devastingly Hopeless In Canada

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Forget about him. Don't stay friends with him either; it will cause you more pain.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Keep your boyfriend all the while maintain the friendship secretly still wanting him in hopes that someday you'll be with him
Vote for Option C   
C:  Stay friends with him. Just friends. Block all thoughts of anything else out of your mind. Tell yourself it's not gonna happen.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Try and steal him away, and keep your boyfriend; try and have your cake and eat it too

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