OUR ADVICE FOR CONFUSED:

	A:	Make things easier on your heart and stay away fro ...		33%
	B:	Keep the friendship going. She'll grow to love you ...		22%
	C:	Give her an ultimatum. Tell her that you need to b ...		22%
	D:	Time for a hair-brained scheme: stay friends with ...		23%
Total Votes: 1745

Dear Anyone,

I'm a gay 17 year old male and I have a problem...

Cutting a long story short, I'm in love with one of my best friends. He's not the straightest guy (generally in the way he acts, he doesn't act camply or anything; he's not afraid to share his emotions and stuff...). He also has a girlfriend.
Now, my dilemma is, should I invite him round and tell him that I love him? Even if it's just for closure? I'm pretty sure he'd understand. Part of him might even feel the same way (but that's just wishful thinking...). I've loved him since the beginning of this year, I hoped it would go away but it hasn't. So should I tell him? I hate being gay, or I hate that all guys aren't gay, one or the other. :p

I would be greatful if you could help me...

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Tell him. At least you'll get it out of your system.
	B:	Give it some more time. You'll get over him.
	C:	Don't tell him your feelings straight out (no pun intended). Just be flirty and see if he reciprocates.
	D:	Don't risk your friendship. Tell him nothing.

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