Dear Anyone Love Advice  
 
 
Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR HOMEWRECKER:
  A:  Choose Dave. After all, you fell in love with him ...        29%
  B:  Duh... baby brother. Like you said, he is younger ...        29%
  C:  Cross that bridge when you get to it. It's not lik ...        21%
  D:  Neither. Obviously Dave shows that wedding vows me ...        21%
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Dear Anyone,

I have questions about love and why we settle? I am a single woman, attractive, not perfect...looking for love. I really don't think I am looking right now, just sort of waiting. I have a friend who I have known for 5-6 years--a friend of the family. He and I just kindled a friendship. He is married and has told me that he will not leave his wife anytime soon due to his kids and financial reasons. I truly care about him and it breaks my heart that someone so cool is not obtainable. He likes me, thinks I am attractive, but just wants to be my friend with sex benefits. I like him so much that I even thought of trying to make that work. He was supposed to come over the other night so we could talk and decide what we were going to do, if anything. I got jerky with him and just hung up without saying good-bye and did not hear from him. I called and left several messages and wondered why he had not called me back. My last message I left him, I clicked over to the other line with out hanging up and he heard me trash him...like that "f---loser he can kiss my ---" and so on. This made him furious and now he thinks he knows how I really feel about him and wants nothing to do with me! When in reality his mom was sick and he did not even think to call...he is also mad I did not give him the benefit of the doubt... So to have a frienship with him is out of the question now and it breaks my heart. I know I can't be the other woman, nor did I ever really want to be. I truly care about this person and don't know what to do! His last words to me were, "Thank God we did not get into a relationship...I truly see who you are!!!"

Ruined a friendship for nothing

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  The situation could be a lot worse than it turned out. Consider yourself lucky that things didn't get really bad and just let him go.
Vote for Option B   
B:  He's better off believing that you're not a good person--not just for his sake but for the sake of his wife and kids.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Write him a note of apology and tell him that you want to be friends and friends only.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Follow him everywhere he goes, call him constantly and leave notes on his car. Don't stop until you get him back.

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