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OUR ADVICE FOR AGGRAVATED:
  A:  Don't react in any way. Ignore the harassment alto ...        28%
  B:  Fight back. Confront all the people who contact yo ...        24%
  C:  Try getting the cops involved for cyber-stalking i ...        24%
  D:  The solution is easy. Just get a new unlisted phon ...        24%
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Dear Anyone,

I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years. The relationship was complicated and although I love her, I couldn't continue with her - it was simply one of those "right person, wrong time" things. But I love her and think she's great and want her to be in my life as a friend. She told me in order to be my friend, she had to have time to "get over" me and she would contact me when she's ready. We haven't seen or spoken to each other in 2 months. I really want us to be friends because we're great together, but my heart is grieving the end of this relationship too. Should I contact her, or continue to give her the space she says she needs?

Heartbroken Without a Friend

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Leave her alone and give her the time she needs to heal. You dumped her, so you'll have to abide by her timeline.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Write her a letter or an email explaining your feelings and hope for a reply.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Ask a mutual friend to "get the scoop" on her. If she sounds like she's doing OK, then give her a call to talk things over.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Forget about her completely and move on with your life. It doesn't sound like she ever wants to be a part of your life again.

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