OUR ADVICE FOR I DON'T KNOW:

	A:	He loves you, but he's just being honest. He doesn ...		32%
	B:	Call your mom, a counselor, or both. The guy is me ...		22%
	C:	This guy is playing you, girl! He just wants sex, ...		24%
	D:	The guy has cold feet about getting hitched. Who d ...		22%
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Dear Anyone,

I have a problem with my current live-in girlfriend. She is talking to another guy and emailing him once a day or more. However, she has not met up with him at all in person. She does not know that I know about this. She also seems to be bored with our sexual life. But, I think she is the actual bore and never tries to change things around. I do love her very much but want to know if our relationship is doomed or not. Is it?

Confused and a Little Jealous in California

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Confront her about your suspicions. Things aren't doomed if you can work things out and get the flame going again between you.
	B:	Leave her. Even if she hasn't physically cheated on you, she's cheating on you emotionally. That says "doomed relationship" to me.
	C:	Beat her to the punch. Cheat on her first if she's going to cheat on you. It may not solve anything, but you'll feel better.
	D:	You need to record a phone conversation or get into her email. Without hard evidence, you'll just come off sounding paranoid.

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