Dear Anyone Love Advice  
 
 
Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR FOOL IN A FANTASY WORLD:
  A:  Keep dating the guy, but remember that he's alread ...        30%
  B:  You're overreacting. Everyone gets into a financia ...        21%
  C:  Time for some detective work. Start asking questio ...        25%
  D:  Lose his number and erase him from your address bo ...        25%
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Dear Anyone,

I have been dating this guy for six years. We have been living together for about 3 1/2 years. Our problem is we argue constantly about everything. I think we lost our love connection. From day to day I'm not sure if it is even worth saving, but I don't just want to throw away six years. The guy is pretty decent, he is respectful, doesn't cheat, and really loves me. Me, on the other hand, at times I can be selfish, I'm not really good with communication or being affectionate, and I sometimes bring my stress from work and school home which further separates our togetherness.

I feel like we have become like oil and water though. When he has a good vibe, I don't have one. And when I have a good vibe, he does not have one.

Growing Apart

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  It sounds like you're the real issue. Really try to work on your personal problems and the relationship will improve.
Vote for Option B   
B:  You're stuck in a bad pattern. Give it some more time and if it doesn't get better, move on.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Do something completely adventurous and out-of-the-ordinary. Doing something that takes you both out of your comfort zone should spark things up again.

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