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OUR ADVICE FOR CONFUSED IN NEW YORK:
  A:          31%
  B:  Let your friend deal with it. After all, she was s ...        23%
  C:          23%
  D:  Don't tell your husband, but avoid the couple. Thi ...        24%
Total Votes: 2565


Dear Anyone,

Every Monday night me and a group of friends play poker. Over a period of a few months I had the opportunity to get to know someone who seems to be a great fit for me. He has a girlfriend and is unhappy in his relationship. A few months ago we started hanging out and realized that we really enjoyed each other's company. We talked about possibly dating and seeing how things go. We ended up crossing a line that we both felt very guilty about and decided to just be friends, and try to distance ourselves from each other until he could decided what he wants to do. He doesn't want to hurt his girlfriend, but he does have a crush on me. So, for the past few months we have stayed away, only contacting each other through email. I was beginning to feel better, and thought that maybe the attraction I had, had finally gone away. We saw each other this weekend for the first time in months and for a little while I was able to distance myself well, but by the end of the night all we could do was talk. The attraction is still there for both of us, and it's like we just can't help but want each other. He needs to let her go, or let me go...What should I do to make him see that if he doesn't love her, and is unhappy that he is just going to hurt her more in the long run? Or should I just let it go all together? I will not wait around for him, but there is something there, and I don't know how to let that go.

Confused in the South

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Play the game, and make him want you. If you play it right, he'll dump her for you.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Stay away. You shouldn't get in the way of his relationship.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Keep hanging out with him, but don't let things get to far.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Tell him that he has to choose between you and her.

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