Dear Anyone Love Advice  
 
 
Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR WATCHING AND WAITING:
  A:  Leave. If your wife has affection for everyone but ...        31%
  B:  Give counseling another try, and ask your wife to ...        25%
  C:  Read "Relationship Rescue" by Dr. Phil. If the big ...        23%
  D:  Kick your daughter out of the house and get rid of ...        21%
Total Votes: 2466


Dear Anyone,

I'm 27 years old and in a wonderful relationship with a 24 year-old. He treats me like gold and I know he loves me. Once when he was professing his love to me he even cried. And he's not a whimp, by any means. We moved in together (his idea) after only dating for six months and now we are coming up on our year anniversary. We've had our ups and downs, but all in all it's been great. The thing is I know he wants to marry me, and I want to marry him. But he has it in his head that he needs to have enough money first so he can take care of us! He's 24! He makes good money and is very driven but I don't think a person is ever READY 100% for marriage and kids. I mean, there is always something that comes up. Long story short I want to get married and have kids, soon. While I think he wants to wait a few years. Meanwhile, I don't want to "play house" if we aren't getting married soon. I don't want to end it, he is too important to me. But I really want to get married and don't think I can allow myself to live with him for more then a year without marriage.

Lucky in Love, sort of

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Put on the pressure for marriage. If he really loves you he will realize it and make the leap.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Leave him. You're not getting any younger.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Move out, but stay together, until it's time to get married.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Give him a deadline.

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