OUR ADVICE FOR HOPELESSLY GUILTY:

	A:	Try to forget about it. It's not a big deal, and w ...		31%
	B:	Talk to the friend and politely tell him he needs ...		23%
	C:	Make it up to your husband by paying him extra att ...		25%
	D:	There's no choice but to let things continue to be ...		21%
Total Votes: 2532

Dear Anyone,

I am at the crossroads in my life. I finally got out of high school and life is going pretty good. My job is great, I am a swimming instructor and a life guard and the people I work with are great, really great. The problem is that I don't know what to do about the relationship thing. I am involved at the moment with my first girlfriend and it's been about 4 months since we started dating. At first it was great, but sadly I fear that the the fire has gone out and there are rough waters ahead. The dilemma I have is that as much as I like the girl that I am going out with, I don't like her as much as I did when we started dating. It seems like more of a responsibility than a fun and exciting thing to do. Also there is this other girl who I met recently who is the nicest girl I have ever met and I knew I felt something the first time I spoke to her. My problem is as much as I want the relationship I am in to work, I don't think it will and I really like this other girl. What shoud I do?

A guy with a dilema

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Don't be distracted by the new girl if you've got a good relationship already.
	B:	Pursue a new love, with the possibility of heartbreak and a bitter ex.
	C:	See how things play out then make a descison.
	D:	It's not like you're married! Live a little while you're young.

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