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OUR ADVICE FOR SINCERELY CONFUSED IN TEXAS:
  A:  You said it yourself: family comes first. Dating a ...        29%
  B:  What happens in other people's lives is not your p ...        23%
  C:  Date the guy, but only on the condition that the a ...        23%
  D:  Ask your aunt first, and only date the guy if you ...        24%
Total Votes: 2609


Dear Anyone,

My girlfriend of four years took a 3-month vacation to her home while I stayed behind to work. This was all pre-arranged.

Everything was going fine, but then recently she called me up and told me she wants to stay at her home permanently. I can't pack up and move because my career is going well where I am, and her home doesn't offer any of the career choices I'm interested in. When I told her this, she said she was probably going to stay there anyway.

What she doesn't know is that while she was away I bought her an engagement ring, and I was planning on proposing when she returned. Now she may not return at all. I can't figure out why she would throw away the past 4 years of our relationship, as well as the future, so she can stay at home where jobs are limited, there's nothing to do most of the time, and finding a place to live would be difficult.

Frustrated

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Don't panic. She'll come back.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Propose anyway. It may be just what she needs to move away from her home.
Vote for Option C   
C:  She's betrayed you. You should finish it and move on.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Suck it up and move to where she wants to live.

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