Dear Anyone,
My girlfriend of four years took a 3-month vacation to her home while I stayed behind to work. This was all pre-arranged.
Everything was going fine, but then recently she called me up and told me she wants to stay at her home permanently. I can't pack up and move because my career is going well where I am, and her home doesn't offer any of the career choices I'm interested in. When I told her this, she said she was probably going to stay there anyway.
What she doesn't know is that while she was away I bought her an engagement ring, and I was planning on proposing when she returned. Now she may not return at all. I can't figure out why she would throw away the past 4 years of our relationship, as well as the future, so she can stay at home where jobs are limited, there's nothing to do most of the time, and finding a place to live would be difficult.
Frustrated