Dear Anyone,
My boyfriend moved in with my daughter and me in February. I warned him that the job market here stinks and that I'm stuck here until I graduate in 2 years. He has a job but it doesn't really pay. He recently proclaimed his immense homesickness and is moving home. My daughter loves him and is baffled as am I. My assumption is he has never had to be responsible, his 40k a yr job was all party money and he has no kids. Here's the clencher, he's asking that we remain a couple only long distance (5 hour drive every weekend). We were doing this when we met and it sucked, hence his moving. I'm reluctant to continue with a man that can't grow up and is choosing to leave my child to struggle while mummy and daddy help him pay his bills. His claim is that by the time I graduate (in 2 yrs) he will have a house for our "family." He has made it clear he's miserable here and wants his jobs, family and friends back. He's definitely leaving. If I convince him to stay he would not only be miserable but make me miserable. My question is, should I let this go for good or continue to try this long distance thing to let him get his affairs in order?
sick of dating big hairy old man children